For Valentine's Day, red roses and heart-shaped chocolates are out. Self-care is in (2024)

By Hayley Lind12th February 2024

As young consumers begin to prioritise themselves on 14 February, personal wellness and friendship are taking the front seat.

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At 1-800-Flowers, shoppers can easily snap up a dozen red roses ready to ship for Valentine's Day. But this year, they'll also have the choice to purchase a social media-inspired "Girls Night In" flower arrangement, complete with Ghirardelli chocolate, Popcorn Factory kettle corn and rosé spritzers.

"We're constantly looking out for the next big thing, evaluating different colours, styles, varieties and add-ons that may be appropriate for the brand and our products – and attract a younger consumer," says Jason John, chief marketing officer at 1-800-Flowers, a US gifting conglomerate.

Flowers, chocolate and jewellery remain staples for Valentine's Day – a market in which US consumers alone will spend an estimated $26bn (£20.6bn) this year. However, new opportunities have emerged in this space. Not only have fresher takes on traditional gifts appeared, but instead of focusing on partners, many players in the industry have also begun offering products geared towards self-care and wellness.

Instead of doubling down on tried-and-true wares, an increasing number of brands are tailoring their assortments and marketing techniques to these changing consumer tides. And companies that historically might not have fit within the holiday gifting conversation are entering the market. These businesses are all laser-focused on providing options for a new consumer segment that wants to indulge in self-care and "Galentine's" offerings, and shake off the mushy Valentine's Day of yore.

"We are seeing some of the mainstream corporate companies starting to embrace a wider descriptor of what Valentine's Day actually means," says Joanna Feeley, founder and CEO at UK-based trend-forecasting agency Trend Bible. "Valentine's almost needs a rebrand, but it's not dead".

For Valentine's Day, red roses and heart-shaped chocolates are out. Self-care is in (1)

US apparel-retailer Bombas says their Valentine's Day sock bundles have been a success in a changing consumer landscape (Credit: Courtesy of Bombas)

A heart-shaped change of heart

The precarious global economic, political and environmental state may be part of shifting consumer attitudes. Many people feel an overwhelming sense of existential dread, which means they are self-prioritising and leaning into "'I deserve it' purchasing", says Faye Landes, a consumer and retail analyst at Landes Advisors, a US-based consultancy.

Crucially, evolving social sentiments also factor in: many people want the holiday to feel more inclusive, acknowledging the importance of platonic relationships and soothing self-care rituals alongside partner-based gifting. "There's a consumer shift to be more holistic around [Valentine's Day] – meaning it's no longer a day solely for romantic relationships," says Audrey Chee-Read, principal analyst at global market-research firm Forrester, based in Boston.

These factors have given rise to perhaps the biggest evolution in the market: the emergence of the Valentine's Day personal-wellness category. Feeley says consumers have a growing interest in "centring the self". This can look like anything from celebrating singlehood and gifting yourself your favourite treats, to bucking the romantic, saccharine aspects of Valentine's Day messaging altogether.

As such, consumers are concerned with treating themselves and their friends as they would a romantic partner – think of the emergence and rapid spread of "Galentine's Day", coined on the NBC sitcom Parks and Recreation. A 2022 survey from multinational dating platform Plenty of Fish showed that 36% of the 2,000 American Gen Z-ers and millennials surveyed planned to spend Valentine's Day having a self-care night with friends. Young people are especially leading this change: Y Pulse survey data from 2023 showed more than a quarter of Gen Z respondents said they'd likely spend Valentine's Day with friends, and also said they'd buy gifts for them.

These shifts have the door for brands such as Bombas, known widely for their socks. The New York-based apparel retailer's products have typically been most popular for gifting during the December holidays, but Bombas has seen an uptick in sales around Valentine's Day the past few years, with themed sock bundles being best sellers. "Our Valentine's Day offerings this year, specifically for women, have been one of our strongest to date," says the company's chief marketing officer, Kate Huyett.

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Los Angeles-based Boy Smells has staked a claim in the Valentine's Day market, matching the consumer desire for personal wellness and inclusivity (Credit: Courtesy of Boy Smells)

New takes on the traditional

This doesn't mean consumers don't want traditional products – they're just looking beyond heart-shaped chocolates.

Social media is a driving force. At 1-800-Flowers, the company has partnered with the 5 Love Languages platform to create arrangements for each "love language": acts of service, words of affirmation, physical touch, receiving gifts and quality time. Although the concept has been around since the 90s, it's experienced a revival throughout the past year on social media, particularly TikTok. This viral popularity inspired the retail collaboration, which 1-800-Flowers expects will win over younger consumers.

The Valentine's Day fragrance market has shifted, too. Boy Smells, known for its Instagram-friendly candles and perfumes in genderless scents, says they've seen consumer interest spike for Valentine's Day. Their marketing approach of individuality fits the niche of self-care and friendship for the holiday, says Matthew Herman, the Los Angeles-based brand's cofounder. "This is a sentiment often expressed between close friends and family, more so than lovers or romantic partners."

It is a far cry from the fragrance companies that have relied on romantic, gendered sex appeal to move product – yet Boy Smells has been able to penetrate the multi-million-dollar Valentine's Day fragrance market.

Ultimately, brands must adapt. Across many categories, consumer trends are shifting – a change largely propelled by young consumers. The holiday is yet another example of how people are directing their dollars to align with their values and lifestyles. And if there's money to be had, Cupid's arrow will hit the mark.

For Valentine's Day, red roses and heart-shaped chocolates are out. Self-care is in (2024)

FAQs

Are flowers and chocolate enough for Valentine's Day? ›

Valentine's Day has been seen as a traditional holiday since the late 1800s' with flowers and chocolates being the one of the most popular gifts given. However, chocolates should be number one. Although flowers can be a great surprise, after the initial reaction there isn't much benefit from the gift.

How many heart shaped boxes of chocolates are sold each year for Valentine's Day? ›

He introduced the first heart-shaped box of chocolates for V-Day in 1861, and today, more than 36 million heart-shaped boxes of chocolates are sold each year. That's 58 million pounds of chocolate!

Why do people give out chocolate on Valentine's Day? ›

Why is chocolate given on Valentine's Day? The Mayans were a civilization estimated to have been around during 500 BCE and used cocoa-brewed beverages during wedding rituals to demonstrate the couple's bitter-sweet future together. And this is what has kick-started the tradition of celebrating love with chocolate.

What do red roses symbolize on Valentine's Day? ›

If movies, TV shows, poems, and plays have taught us anything, it's that red roses are the symbol of deep, passionate, romantic love. As the most popular flower sold on Valentine's Day, giving someone a bouquet of red roses is a clear sign that you've caught the love bug.

What is the meaning of chocolate on Valentine's Day? ›

In Mesoamerica, the passion for chocolate was rooted in the notion of courtly love, where it was used as a symbol of affection. This idea has continued to modern times, with heart-shaped boxes of chocolates being used to express love and admiration.

Why is chocolate good for Valentine's Day? ›

It is an edible declaration of love that the recipient will enjoy because: it tastes good. It makes our heart happy. Chocolate has been considered an aphrodisiac since the Aztecs, meaning it is said to contain a substance that 'inflames desire and makes the beloved one more open to romance.

What is the most popular Valentine's day candy in 2024? ›

Heart-shaped boxes of chocolate are the most popular Valentine's Day candy in the US, ranking No. 1 in 15 states, including Missouri and Oklahoma. In second place is conversation hearts, which is the number one candy in 13 states, including Alaska, Washington and North Carolina.

Why is February 14 special? ›

February 14 is celebrated as Saint Valentine's Day in various Christian denominations; it has, for example, the rank of "commemoration" in the calendar of saints in the Anglican Communion. The feast day of Saint Valentine is given in the calendar of saints of the Lutheran Church.

Why should Valentine's Day be celebrated? ›

It's the time we show our unconditional love for our partners with gifts they can treasure forever. On 14 February we share the love we have for one another with romantic gestures all around the world. What better way to show someone you love them, than with a gift of diamonds they will treasure forever.

What is the importance of Chocolate Day in Valentine week? ›

Chocolates are synonymous with love, pleasure, and tenderness, symbolizing the sweet moments shared between individuals. Gifting chocolates on Chocolate Day is a gesture of love and appreciation, strengthening bonds and creating lasting memories.

Why do we give roses on Valentine's Day? ›

Red roses, for instance, typically represent love and romance and have been a powerful symbol of passion for many cultures through the ages. The rose was sacred to a number of goddesses including Isis of Egypt, and the ancient Greeks and Romans identified the rose with their goddesses of love, Aphrodite and Venus.

What does 100 roses mean in love? ›

100 roses: Giving 100 roses is a grand, extravagant gesture of love. It is a way to show the person you care about that your love for them is immense and boundless. It is a way to express your love in a grand and memorable way.

What do 12 red roses mean? ›

A dozen red roses means 'be mine' and can be used for special romatic occasions such as birthdays, Valentine's Day & anniversaries. Remember, use flowers in a thoughtful way so that the meaning isn't lost! For instance, a single rose with a Valentine's Day message can add to the romance.

What does 3 roses mean? ›

3 Roses – 'I love you'. 4 Roses – the perfect way to say 'nothing will come between us'. 5 Roses – a great way signify your love for a special someone. If you want to show a partner or friend how much you care for them, five roses is an ideal option. 6 Roses – signifies 'I want to be yours'.

Is flowers and chocolate a good gift? ›

Well, chocolate and flowers together make a beautiful and healthy gift. They go perfectly together. Each has its particularity and symbolism and has a positive effect on people. Chocolate is delicious as it reveals tropical and exotic flavours and aromas of the world that satisfy every palate.

Are flowers a good Valentine's Day gift? ›

Flowers are very popular for Valentine's Day, and that part is not changing,” Kate Penn, CEO of the Society of American Florists, said. “In fact, we even just saw a study from the National Retail Federation … saying that flowers are still in the top three (Valentine's Day gifts).”

How many flowers should I give on Valentine's Day? ›

A full dozen is classic for Valentine's Day, conveying “Be my Valentine” to your girlfriend. Two dozen takes it up a notch, suggesting you want to be with her forever. And simply a single stemmed rose can indicate she's the only one for you.

Should I get a girl I like flowers for Valentine's Day? ›

Women love flowers!

In yet another study, virtually 100% of women who were presented with flowers as a gift smile a true, heartfelt (or "duch*enne") smile. Unless she's allergic, women love flowers.

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